Ever listen to a singer online and think, “Wow… my voice sounds nothing like that”? Or play back your own recording and cringe so hard you can’t even finish it? Yup, we’ve all been there.
This feeling is called vocal dysmorphia—when your brain hyper-focuses on what you think is “wrong” with your voice, making it hard to notice all the things that are actually amazing. The good news? You can flip the script and start appreciating your voice, one step at a time.
✏️ Step 1: Pick One Thing You LOVE About Your Voice
Start small. Grab a pen, paper, or your phone, and write down one thing you genuinely like about your voice. It could be your tone, your power, a smooth vibrato, or even a quirky note nobody else can hit.
It might feel awkward—good! That’s a sign you’re breaking old habits of self-criticism.
🎵 Mini Challenge: Pick a simple song you love and sing it while focusing only on that one attribute. Lean into it, exaggerate it, and really enjoy the sound you’re producing.
🌟 Step 2: Stack Your Vocal Wins
Once you start focusing on your first “love note” to your voice, you may notice other strengths emerging naturally. Your runs might feel smoother, your phrasing tighter, or your vocal power stronger.
✅ Tip: Write down every new discovery. Treat it like a collection of trophies for your voice—over time, it becomes a tangible reminder of what your voice can do.
🎧 Extra Tip: Record yourself during this exercise. Listening back allows you to hear progress you might not notice while singing, and helps build confidence.
💛 Step 3: Understand the Value of Guided Feedback
We’re often our own harshest critics. A coach or experienced teacher can provide objective feedback, helping you identify what already shines and where growth is possible. Guided practice can accelerate learning, uncover hidden strengths, and build confidence.
Even simple insights, like posture, breath support, or vowel shaping, can transform how your voice feels and sounds.
Stop comparing. Stop overthinking. Start celebrating your voice—the unique instrument only you can play.
Today’s exercise: Pick one vocal quality you love and sing a song focusing on it. Notice what else comes naturally when you let go of judgment—you may be surprised by how much more of your voice shines.
For singers looking to take their practice further, working with a coach can help you unlock even more of your potential in a structured and supportive way. Small, consistent guidance can make a huge difference in building confidence and vocal skill. At Tara Simon Studios, our 30-minute first trial lesson with a master coach is your first step toward vocal freedom and unlocking your full potential. Because your voice matters—and it’s time the world hears it. 🎤💫
